Blowjob 101

One more word of caution concerning throat fucking.

Don't let him get carried away when he starts to cum. He'll have the urge to thrust his cock all the way down into your stomach, but that urge to thrust has to be controlled. The most important lesson of this exercise is, keep it under control! As the two of you gain confidence in each other through practice, you can let him step up the pace and intensity of his strokes as he nears his climax. When he's fucking you and getting near his climax, you bring your cunt up to meet his thrusts. You can do the same thing with your throat, respond to his climax by meeting his thrusts with your throat. Bring your face firmly up against his groin, not hard enough to bruise your lips, just firmly enough for both of you to know that he's got all of it in you. Use your hands on his hips to pull his cock into you to find out how hard he should thrust.
At least in the beginning, keep your hands on his hips while you're throat fucking so you can guide his strokes and control where his cock is when he cums. If you don't want to take his cum into your mouth, and can hold your breath and relax your throat long enough to keep his cock deep in your throat while he cums, you'll not be faced with the problem of tasting or swallowing his cum. His cum will shoot right on down into your stomach. If he's fucking your throat, he'll probably want to keep his cock all the way in, using short quick strokes at the bottom of your throat as he shoots his load down into your stomach, it's that desire to plant his seed deep.

You must relax completely to enjoy his short hard strokes with his cock all the way down in your throat and he has to be careful not to bruise your lips. To do this long enough for him to completely get it off requires more than a few days practice. With time and practice you'll become more comfortable with what you are doing. The ability to relax will come with the comfort, this is work? Since you've already practiced it, you'll be able to take him completely down your throat, but may not be able to maintain proper relaxation and hold your breath long enough for him to shoot his load.

Each time you practice you'll be able to hold him in longer. It'll help if you learn to get him almost to the point of cumming and then take an extra deep breath before he starts those final short thrusts at the bottom of your throat. Remember that you don't want to be inhaling while he's shooting cum down your throat. The only way you'll find out if you can hold your breath with his cock deep in you long enough for him to shoot it all is to try. If you try and he's started to cum but it's going to take too long for him to finish, just push his cock back out of your throat into your mouth quickly, swallow, take a breath and let him finish. Keep practicing this until you know your limits and how to deal with them.

It won't hurt you if he does cum in your throat, or if some of his cum runs down your throat while he's shooting his load. It's no different from swallowing a thick syrup. When you swallow, the entrance to your larynx is closed off and the liquid goes down your esophagus to your stomach, it'll also close when his cock slides past it. With practice, you can close it your self anytime you want to, try closing it while you're exhaling through your mouth. The only time you'll have a problem is if you try to inhale while his cum is running, or being shot out of a thrusting cock, past your larynx. Even then, it'll only be unpleasant, no worse than choking on a swallow of water. It's important that you learn to deal with this potential problem because you don't want to interfere with the natural flow of events when you're both enjoying his climax. The key is in your breathing. You can let him cum with his cock anywhere in your mouth or throat, including stroking it in and out of or up and down in your throat. He can even shoot his load down into your throat with his cock at the entrance, just don't inhale while his cum is running past the entrance to your larynx, swallow first and then inhale.

Whether you're deep-throating him or he's fucking your throat, don't be too mechanical about it. Once you get used to that luscious cock filling your mouth and throat with his belly pressing against your face, a few short quick strokes gently bumping his groin against your mouth, maybe with a little wiggle or two, can feel great to both of you. When the two of you become familiar with each others desires, you can add more pleasure by using your hands on each other. It will feel great to him when you grab his butt and press his belly tight against your face, rubbing your nose around in his bush. It can also feel great to you for him to place his hands on your head and gently press your face against him, it's a psychological thing, sort of like firm hugs when you're fucking. Don't forget, you can pull him tight against your mouth and hold him there any time you want to. It's psychological, for him and for you.

Every so often, take an extra deep breath, grab his butt, pull him all the way into you and hold him there. Play around with his cock, work it around in your mouth and throat, rub your face over his groin, play with his balls. Let him hold your head with his hands while he strokes his cock in and out in quick short gentle little strokes keeping it deep in your throat, bumping his groin against your lips. Let him try those same short strokes with the head of his cock moving in and out of the entrance to your throat. Let him hold your face tight against him while he works his cock around and around in your mouth and throat. Learn what feels best for each other. If you both understand what it is that you're trying to do, as well as the possible problems that may come up along the way, you'll never regret having learned to deep-throat.

Hopefully he'll understand that any initial difficulties are not a rejection of him or of what he's offering you and that all you need is practice. Not everyone will be able to accomplish all of the deep-throat techniques, but it's my sincere desire that you not stop trying and think that your blowjobs are unacceptable. If a man isn't satisfied just to have his cock in your mouth, then you probably don't want to have his cock in you anywhere.

One of life's more pleasant things for me is to rest between orgasms during side-by-side 69 with our heads on each others thighs. This is restful for both and you can play with and be played with for hours in this position. After he cums, let his cock really go down while he's resting, then quickly suck all of it into your mouth, I mean all the way up to his balls. I wonder if I could get his nuts in too? I could hold them in my cheeks like a chipmunk. Na, the whole works might get stuck in there and I'd be embarrassed to call 911 in that position. Then keep sucking on it and working on it with your tongue and mouth until he starts to get a hard-on again, it won't take long. Grab his butt and hold his groin tight against your mouth while that luscious throbbing cock swells to full size. It's that psychological thing again, it feels wonderful as his cock slowly fills your mouth and grows down into your throat.

Continue to practice deep-throating, you don't have to deep-throat on every stroke, or even every time you give head. You can give great head with just the head of his cock in your mouth and he'll love it, but it sure feels good to him when you put your face in his bush, sort of like how you feel when he leaves your clit and thrusts his tongue deep in your cunt. I know couples who have devoted ten months to this lesson and never regretted a minute of it. Continue because each time you practice you'll be able to take his cock deeper into your throat and hold it there longer. If you believe, as I do, "the deeper the better" and if you have the desire to both give and get the most out of giving head, you'll get this one down pat!

Next >>